A few days ago I was racing out the door for the airport. This is not uncommon for me. However, our 2 year old daughter wanted to show me her doll. She was chatting with me only as a 2 year old can. So sweet. But I was too busy for her. She kept following me as I was finalizing my suitcase all the while chatting away. The time came for me to leave the room and go to my car. I'll never forget as I walked out the room and as I glanced over my shoulder I saw our little Principessa sitting on the floor, doll in hand looking at me as I walked away. My heart dropped. She just wanted to spend a few moments with me and I was walking away. I got to the stairs and I felt I needed to turn around. The flight will be there. I will make it. But I can't miss this opportunity. I went back and picked up my daughter and had her show me her doll. Although brief, we had some daddy/daughter time and then I went to the airport. To think I almost missed that wonderful moment in time.
I am all for presents at Christmas time. I think it is a wonderful way to express our gratitude to our friends and loved ones. However, I think in many cases, giving the gift of time may be just what is needed. And it is free. Going for a walk. Talking about the day. Playing a board game or a video game. Or simply talking about a little doll. So during this wonderful Christmas season I propose we try to find ways to give of our time. It is so rewarding for all involved. Merry Christmas!